Wednesday, April 20, 2011

"There are two basic motivating forces: fear and love. When we are afraid, we pull back from life. When we are in love, we open to all that life has to offer with passion, excitement, and acceptance. We need to learn to love ourselves first, in all our glory and our imperfections. If we cannot love ourselves, we cannot fully open to our ability to love others or our potential to create. Evolution and all hopes for a better world rest in the fearlessness and open-hearted vision of people who embrace life." 
 John Lennon


"We search for happiness everywhere, but we are like Tolstoy's fabled beggar who spent his life sitting on a pot of gold, under him the whole time. Your treasure--your perfection--is within you already. But to claim it, you must leave the buy commotion of the mind and abandon the desires of the ego and enter into the silence of the heart." 
 Elizabeth Gilbert (Eat, Pray, Love: One Woman's Search for Everything Across Italy, India and Indonesia)
"This life is what you make it. Not matter what, you're going to mess up sometimes, it's a universal truth. But the good part is you get to decide how you're going to mess it up. Girls will be your friends - they'll act like it anyway. But just remember, some come, somg go. The ones that stay with you through everything - they're your true best friends. Don't let go of them. Also remember, sisters make the best friends in the world. As for lovers, well, they'll come and go too. And babve, I hate to say it, most of them - actually pretty much all of them are going to break your heart, but you can't give up becuase if you give up, you'll never find your soul mate. You'll never find that half who makes you whole and that goes for everything. Just because you fail once, doesn't mean you're gonna fail at everything. Keep trying, hold on, and always, always, always believe in yourself, because if you don't, then who will, sweetie? So keep your head high, keep your chin up, and most importantly, keep smiling, because life's a beautiful thing and there's so much to smile about." 
 Marilyn Monroe

"Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own." 
"Not all of us can do great things. 
But we can do small things with great love." 
"Your emotions are the slaves to your thoughts, and you are the slave to your emotions." 

Saturday, April 16, 2011

17 most important things to remember in life

1. Never give up on anybody; miracles happen everyday.
2.Be brave even if your not, pretend to be. No one can tell the difference. 
3. Think big thoughts, relish small pleasures.

4. Learn to listen. Opportunity sometimes knocks very softly.
5. Never deprive someone of hope, it might be all they have.
6. Strive for excellence, not perfection.

7. Don’t waste time grieving over past mistakes. Learn from them and move on.
8. When someone hugs you let them be the first to let go.
9. Never cut what can be untied.

10. Don’t expect life to be fair.

11. Remember:Success comes to the one that acts first.
12. Never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them.

13. Remember that nobody makes it alone. Have a grateful heart and be quick to acknowledge those who help you.

14. Never underestimate the power of a kind word or deed.

15. Laugh a lot. A good sense of humor cures almost all of life’s ills.
16. Don’t miss the magic of the moment by focusing on whats to come.
17. Watch for big problems. They disguise big opportunities. 

Saturday, March 19, 2011












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Thursday, March 17, 2011

This is a true story that had happened in 1892 at Stanford University . Its moral is still relevant today.


 A young, 18-year-old student was struggling to pay his fees. He was an orphan, and not know ing where to turn for money, he came up with a bright idea. A friend and he decided to host a musical concert on campus to raise money for their education.


 They reached out to the great pianist Ignacy J. Paderewski. His manager demanded a guaranteed fee of $2000 for the piano recital. A deal was struck. And the boys began to work to make the concert a success.


The big day arrived. Paderewski performed at Stanford. But unfortunately, they had not managed to sell enough tickets. The total col lection was only $1600. Disappointed, they went to Paderewski and explained their plight. They gave him the entire $1600, plus a cheque for the balance $400. They promised to honour the cheque soonest possible.


"No." said Paderewski. "This is not acceptable." He tore up the cheque, returned the $1600 and told the two boys "Here's the $1600. Please deduct whatever expenses you have incurred. Keep the money you need for your fees. And just give me whatever is left" The boys were surprised, and thanked him profusely.


It was a small act of kindness. But it clearly marked out Paderewski as a great human being. Why should he help two people he did not even know? We all come across situations like these in our lives.
And most of us only think "If I help them, what would hap pen to me?"
The truly great people think, "If I don't help them, what will happen to them?" They don't do it expecting something in return. They do it because they feel it's the right thing to do.

Paderewski later went on to become the Prime Minister of Poland. He was a great leader, but unfortunately when the World War began, Poland was ravaged. There were over 1.5 mil lion people starving in his country, and no money to feed them. Paderewski did not know where to turn for help. He reached out to the US Food and Relief Administration for help. 


The head there was a man called Herbert Hoover - who later went on to become the US President. Hoover agreed to help and quickly shipped tons of food grains to feed the starving Polish people. A calamity was averted.


 Paderewski was relieved. He decided to go across to meet Hoover and person ally thank him. When Paderewski began to thank Hoover for his noble gesture, Hoover quickly interjected and said, "You shouldn't be thanking me Mr. Prime Minister. You may not remember this, but several years ago, you helped two young students go through college in the US . I was one of them."

The world is a wonderful place. What goes around usually comes around.  

Sunday, March 13, 2011

When writing the story of your life, don't let anyone else hold the pen.
-author unknown
Don’t feed your mind with negative thoughts. If you do, you will come to believe them. 
- Catherine Pulsifer


One of the highest rated comment:

To all the people who keep asking if the boy made it:
You are the boy.  The video is about going for your dreams. Don't be like the dad who just stood on the roof and watched from afar. Don't be like the mom who just pretended what it must be like to live the dream. Go for it. With everything.
Did the boy make it? You are the boy, so you decide. Will you make it?
Brick Walls are there for a reason. They give us a chance to show how badly we want something.

Imagination should be used, not to escape from reality, but to create it!
-Inspirational Book Club
don't let one sad story, one sad town, one shallow person or one broken heart keep you locked inside. live out. #lifeisgood -Joshua Paul Kay